My Gay Life: Months later

I have all but abandoned my blog. I forgot how fun it was to write about my life before it got all crazy. But lets face it, this was pretty much the only outlet for me to vent my frustration of being a young gay man living in a homophobic country. It provided a means of relief. Now that my life isn't that closeted anymore, I am no longer in Jamaica, at least for the moment, I have tonnes of gay friends, I party in gay clubs, I go to gay events and meet some really kool gay people, I openly talk about fucking other guys and don't even care about who is listening and I am no longer a virgin (which I miss by the way. Oh my God such a Huge mistake. Insanely hot guy but still a mistake.....but sex is fun. And I keep doing it. It's amazing what you discover about yourself sexually. I haven't had that mind blowing kind of sex yet though and I have done it with a few people :( My new goal? )

After all that, and more, I really didn't see the need or feel it rather, to keep my blog up and running. My dependence on it to prevent an emotional explosion was loss. I am somewhat comfortable with my gay self now, even to the point of considering telling my family. Yup, that's not going to be fun at all.

Anyway, I should get back to my exam paper. God I hate school work Arggggg. Lol. [Procrastination....check]

It was nice talking to you guys again. I feel all tingly inside now. Not really, just horny :D

Hopefully I'll be posting more frequently. We'll see how well I am able to do this when my course load shots up to a million things. I definitely intend on keeping my blog going even if I go a year with out doing it. It's FUN!!!

Absent

So I haven't blogged in quite a really really long long long time but that doesn't mean I have abandoned my blog. NO WAY!!! I have a lot of stuff, school related, going on and I'm just trying to survive my first year. Therefore my blog has taken a back seat for now but I'll be coming back soon. Exam period is about to start but I should have a bit of free time after that....like 1-2 week before I have to go back to classes. Yes. No rest for the innocent.

Life here is a little bit more fun now though, I think. I've met a few more people but still no boyfriend material. I am still looking. I also came out to two of my friends, which felt great. For once I didn't have to be lying all the time.

Presently, I am also trying to lose my virginity. I have some boys lined up, yes there is more than one, but as for which I'm going to follow through on is still left to question.

Anyway,until sure time my readers. Take care

Confused

So if you guys can recall, I made a Facebook friend through my Craigslists Ad. He was a really nice guy. Well at least I thought he was a nice guy. Anyway, while walking from the gym through the underground maze they have in the building I saw a guy that looked familiar. I didn't have to think very hard about who it was because I recognized that it was the guy I met via Craig's. He was standing with his two friends, waiting for the Racket-ball court so I didn't want to strike up a conversation with them there and I didn't want to walk pass him as if I didn't know him either. So when I approached him, in the tight passage, I basically said "Hi" to the guy and keep walking. When I did that I saw his friend give him "a look" but I didn't think anything of it.

When I finally got home, which was a few hours later, I logged onto Facebook and realized that he had removed me as a friend. Yup it still hurts!! And it never gets any easier. These people are absolutely destroying my self-esteem. It's normal if I want to cry right? lol

I am not even going to try and come up with a reason why this happened. I'm tired of trying to rationalize and figure people out. I will let you guys draw your own conclusions this time.

:( :(

I really wish I had more positive stuff to put on my blog. Sorry guys!!

Scott Herman's Interview with Feast of Fun

So guys, I am still on Scott. And the fact that I am doing a third post on him should prove it. That's never happened before. Then again I've never done a post on a model/fitness trainer other than him so yes he's special!!

Anyway, a few days ago I received an email from Fausto Fernos, the host and producer of a podcast called "Feast of Fun" (which he does in conjunction with his partner Marc Felion) informing me of a recent interview they did with our lover boy Scott. Being it was Scott, I decided to take a listen and to be frank, I thought it was a pretty interesting interview. So as not to be selfish, I further decided to share my Scotty with all you little sluts....AGAIN. So if you want to hear his interview too you can visit the link below:

http://www.feastoffun.com/podcast/2010/02/03/fof-1137-scott-herman-wants-you-to-work-out-02-03-10/

or better yet subscribe to their podcast at:

http://tinyurl.com/feastoffun

Mentally Destroyed

It has been so long since I’ve blogged that I’ve completely forgotten what I wrote about the last time….NOT!! Infact it is still very fresh in my mind. I thought I would be over him by now but that guy screwed with my mind so much that my family and friends have even become concerned about my change in behavior. Yup, I’m in such a foul mood that people around me are beginning to notice. That’s not good. And I would really love to tell them why but I can’t or more accurately won't.

It’s inevitable that I am going to run into him on campus sooner or later but I’m curious how that exchange will play out. Should I ignore him, like he did me, or should I take the high road and be friendly? Did I forget to mention that he is now friends with my friends? So the possibility of running into him just increased a couple thousand degrees. His pictures have even started popping up in my friend’s Facebook Albums and it sucks. I don’t think I can get over this if I am constantly reminded of him. Honestly, Do we realize how much our actions can affect others however insignificant we think they are?

To make matters worse I did the unthinkable and placed an ad on Craigslist just to see if I could make a fresh start. The response was very overwhelming and relatively successful in my eyes, but nothing came out of it. I met one guy who was really into me, even wanted me to come over to his house at 1am but I declined. We made plans to go see a movie together 2 days later but he bailed on me and I never heard from him after that. He claimed he had too much school work. So did I, but I wasn’t going to let that stop me from having a good time. Anyway, I wasn’t too disappointed because I wasn’t overly attracted to him however it would have been fun to experiment a bit with him. Lol. I met a few other guys too but majority of them were just a waste of time. One however was really nice and we are now Facebook friends. Not sure if I should suggest, we fool around and see where it goes. I am just not good with these things at all. I’m a noob in a sea of experts.

Ok!! Maybe my ad wasn’t that successful. So I decided that I would answer someone else’s. A lacrosse player from my University had put up one for “friends with benefits” so I decided that I would send him an email. We exchanged a few emails with stats, looking for etc and it was going pretty well until it was time to exchange pics. I sent him a body shot and he was like, “I am definitely interested in ….” That sent me over the moon especially because he was so MEGA hot!! He then requested a face pic which I also sent a few seconds later. And can you guess what happened next? You got it!! I never heard from him again. Lol. He didn’t even send me his in return. BooHoo

I once thought I was cute but in the midst of all these rejections after submitting my face pic I am beginning to wonder if I am a Butterface. Lol. To say the least my self-esteem took a nose dive, AGAIN! I don’t know if I am dealing with perfectionists, only interested in whites, or what but either way it leaves me feeling very unattractive. It’s kinda hard to be rejected so many times. This does not give me any zeal to try and connect with anyone here on a sexual level. It’s too much. MY GOD WHY DID I COME TO A WHITE SCHOOL?

I think trying to change my life to something I hope will make me happier is accomplishing the opposite effect. I’m more depressed than ever. People are actually going out of their way to be extra friendly/attentative to me now. Even calling me to make sure I am ok. What the hell? I know I feel like shit but I didn’t know it was so obvious to everybody else too.

I often contemplated seeking professional help but I always resisted. There’s no doubt that I do need it now because I am in a really dangerous mental state. I don’t want to be like this anymore!!

On a happier note, Emily and I the best of friends now. It's so Awesome. I mentioned her in the post, Going Straight. We stop and chat with each other in the hallway everytime we pass and we even have a class together now. And yes we always sit together too. It's absolutely amazing. She even broke up with her boyfriend, who also sits right in front of us in class. They don't even talk anymore. Awkward!!! I wonder if she is using me to make him jealous? Then again she was just as sweet to me even when they were together. Either way she is still fucking gorgeous, friendly and smart. It's unbelievable. And I love it when she hits me in the ABS. Her hands on me is nice. I still find it hard that she wants to be friends with me even though there are so many hot guys in our building. She is the most beautiful white girl I have seen to date and I am friends with her. It's Great.